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Balance
care of self and others, speaker advises health professionals
PHILADELPHIA
(March 28) - More than 100 health care professionals, most of
them nurses, explored the relationship between faith and healing
during a daylong workshop March 25 at The Lutheran Theological
Seminary at Philadelphia. The event was co-sponsored by the
Seminary and the Southeastern Pennsylvania Synod of the Evangelical
Lutheran Church in America. The event’s key planners included
parish nurses from throughout the Synod’s 184-congregation territory.
Motivational speaker Helene K. Nawrocki urged her health care
listeners to achieve a balanced lifestyle by first being benevolent
to themselves. “Forgiving yourself, being kind to yourself first,
can be an important key to being in the flow of the day,” said
Nawrocki, the Chief Executive Officer of the Potter County,
PA, Educational Council.
With such a mindset of self-care and compassion, helping to
heal others can create a “circle of exchange” contributing also
to self-healing, said Nawrocki, who studied at La Salle University
to earn her RN and MSN degrees. She has also taught at the La
Salle School of Nursing and is a native of Philadelphia.
Nawrocki based her presentation on the theme, “Lessons from
Oz,” in which the scarecrow, lion and tin man all were seeking
something they did not have. “Each of us in our own place is
pushing against a lot of energy,” she said. To achieve a desirable
balance in life, she urged the workshop attendees to set goals
and practice lifelong learning. She advised her audience to
study in order to learn more about the essence of what rings
true in their lives. And, she challenged her listeners to reach
out to others, gaining wisdom from others’ experiences in order
to add to their own perspectives. With a depth of background,
they should finally be in a position to discern effectively
and make good judgments, she suggested.
Balance is crucial to health professionals, she said, because
if one is totally caught up in taking care of others, one can
ignore personal issues. But with balance, health professionals
“can facilitate the growth of someone else, whether it is toward
recovery or toward a peaceful death. You have much more to give
when you are also committed to self-care,” she advised.
Signs of inner peace include being able to act spontaneously
rather than acting on the basis of past fears, enjoying each
moment and not being preoccupied about judging others. Other
such signs include a loss of interest in interpreting the acts
of others, losing interest in conflict and losing the ability
to worry. She encouraged her audience to be “susceptible to
love extended by others. Enjoy connectedness and attacks of
smiling. Let things happen rather than always thinking you need
to make them happen.”
Workshops for the day focused on Hospice Debriefing, led by
Pastor W. Dean Bickel; Legacy to healing led by Lamont Satterly;
Humor and Ministry led by Nawrocki; Sharing the Vision, co-led
by team ministry partners Pastor David Shaheen and Parish Nurse
Bobbi Castellan; Parish Nursing led by nurse/author Judith A.
Shelly, and The Ministry of Healing, Biblical, Theological and
Current Concepts led by Pastor Suzan Farley.
Planning
Team for the day included Bickel, pastor of Peace Lutheran Church
in Perkasie; Shelly, Resources Director and Editor of the Journal
of Christian Nursing; Karen Bergey, Director of the Becoming
Center at Artman Home in Ambler; Ann Farley, Coordinator of
the Parish Nurse Program in the Holy Redeemer Health System;
Elizabeth Franco, a parish nurse at God’s Love Lutheran Church,
Newtown Square, PA.
Also on the team were the Rev. Edward Oswald, pastor of Grace
Lutheran Church, Drexel Hill; the Rev. George E. Keck, Director
of Lay Theological Education at the Seminary, and Janet Topper,
parish nurse at Upper Dublin Lutheran Church in Ambler.
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