Like father like son? For Lee Miller, II it
didnt start out that way...
For seminary senior Lee Miller, II, the idea of
being a pastor like his Dad once didnt seem very likely.
Its not that he doesnt admire his father,
whos bishop of the Evangelical Lutheran Church in Americas Upstate New York
Synod. "I had a really blessed childhood," he recalls, "and I think
Im really a blend of my parents. -- my Moms passion, energy and
resourcefulness and my Dads approach to problem-solving. Both are seekers of
justice. Im both spontaneous and reflective, and Im like them in being
concerned for justice. Im trying to follow their ideas of being strong and creative
as well as loving and caring..."
But he was thinking in his early teen years of being a
lawyer. Then, while studying at the State University of New York in Albany, he decided to
major in education, intending to become a certified secondary school teacher of English.
"But it turned out the only jobs were in New York City, and I just didnt want
to teach in New York," he said.
So after graduation he got a couple of jobs for two years
-- one at a book store, and one as assistant general manager of a Mexican restaurant.
"All along I was searching for more meaning," he
says. He had spent time volunteering at a homeless shelter. Then one weekend came a
turning point, attending a youth gathering in Bloomsburg, PA, with teens from the
congregation he was a part of -- Holy Spirit Lutheran Church in Albany.
The words of inspirational speaker Bart Campolo caught his
attention. "He was speaking to the high school kids," Lee recalls. "But I
thought he was speaking only to me... He said you can grow up, go to college, buy a house
with a fence and a dog and have 2.5 kids -- or you can decide to really do something with
your life...."
Soon, Lee had set his sights on seminary study. "I
decided quickly I didnt want to be a status quo pastor in a status quo church,"
he says. "I wanted to see how people in a baptized community reach out to
others." For Miller that felt like studying in the Urban Track at The Lutheran
Theological Seminary at Philadelphia and experiencing life in a creative congregation that
on the one hand might be facing the danger of dying but where he found "the faith is
essential to the lives of people and the community they are trying to develop around
them."
Lee Miller became involved in several congregations during
his field work life at the Seminary, but he spends most of his time now at Christus
Lutheran Church in Camden, NJ, a place where he has discovered that "even though
there is a certain crassness of life in Camden, the people of the church know God and they
really know each other -- and they know they need each other." His experiences in the
congregation have shaped his life, he says.
What about Seminary? Miller says he especially appreciates two aspects,
looking back. "Professor Katie Day (Assistant Professor, Church and Community) told
me that if I wanted to discover at the Seminary where I felt called, I would have to pave
my own road. And she said that if I did that, the Seminary would give me room to
grow...Thats really happened for me," Miller says. "The other thing
Ive discovered here is a real sense of community. Ive met other students
touched by faith who are searching and finding like I am. And I couldnt have done
what Ive done here without them...."
Lee Miller, II is excited these days. Hes been
approved for ordination and looks forward soon to continuing his journey of faith as
pastor of a church in the city somewhere. One of his last Seminary memories is likely to
involve his father. Lee, Sr., is the commencement speaker. |